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Friday, September 25, 2020
Tuesday, September 22, 2020
Monday, September 21, 2020
Poem: Death is Nothing
Death Is NothingDeath is nothing.I have only walked into the next room.I am me. You are you.What I was for you, in your heart, I am still.Call me by the name you have always given me.Talk to me the way you always have.Do not change your tone of voice.Do not look solemn or sad.Continue to laugh at what made us laugh together.Pray, smile.Think of me.Pray for me.Let my name be spoken at homeThe way it always haswithout emphasis of any kind.Without an overhanging shadow.Life’s significance is all that it has always been.The seams have not been broken, the thread has not been cut.Why should I no longer be in your thoughtsSimply because I am no longer in your sight?I am not far, just on the other side of the road.You see? All is well.
Henry Scott-Holland
Wednesday, September 9, 2020
The Artist's Wife - Lena Olin and Bruce Dern
Tuesday, September 8, 2020
Poem: Unveiling
Unveiling
In the cemetery
a mile awayfrom where we used to live,
my aunts and mother
my father and uncles lie
in two long rows,
almost the way
they used to sit around
the long planked table
at family dinners.
And walking beside
the graves today, down
one straight path
and up the next,
I don't feel sad, exactly,
just left out a bit,
as if they kept
from me the kind
of grown-up secret
they used to share
back then, something
I'm not quite ready yet
to learn.
Speaking Grief: A New Documentary
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SPEAKING GRIEF is a public media initiative aimed at creating a more grief-aware society by validating the experience of grievers and helping to guide those who wish to support them.