The section on being a witness for a dying person is especially valuable, regardless of your faith status. "Listening to the dying means disciplining yourself to really hear what they are saying without being pressured to fill the void or satisfy your inner need to be comforting." He writes with insight about the importance of reflecting back the experience of the person who is dying, which brings more comfort than attempts at reassurance. He urges friends and family members to "let them lead the discussion and stay focused on their needs, not your needs." He speaks with great feeling about the importance of touch. And he writes with great compassion about comforting those who are ready to die and struggle to find God's purpose in letting them suffer.
For more information, visit Reverend Parrish's To Eternity website.