Audrey J. Parker on Dying in Style

Audrey J. Parker writes about Dying in Style:

I have always liked to do things well and to the best of my ability, so I took my death on as a project. All I wanted was to have a fabulous end-of-life experience on my terms and to die in style. After all, death is natural and can be a beautiful thing if we allow it to be.

Some people speculate about what they would do if they knew when they were going to die. It’s not hypothetical for me. For a while now, I’ve known the exact day when I’m going to die, because I’ve elected medically assisted death to cut off the off the greatest pain and worst quality of life that would be inevitable if I lingered. My pre-planned exit is coming up very soon. I’m unable to leave my bed in my apartment now, and this bed will be my deathbed.

Despite the pain, suffering, and other negative things that have accompanied the process of my dying, I still believe that my last breath will be the most peaceful and beautiful breath of my life. I believe everyone holds the key to their own personal happiness. No matter how dire your circumstances, you control your mindset, attitude, and how you handle things. It is entirely up to you whether you take a positive or negative approach to life (and death).

She writes about what helped her most, including taking control, making time for joy, and helping others.